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Companion soulmates and the art of unconditional love
Companion soulmates and the art of unconditional love
Introduction
Have you ever heard about a soulmate who is non-romantic?
Well, this soulmate is companion soulmate who is also a best friend and a
teammate surpassing romantic attraction. They are also called soulmate friends. This
connection is strictly platonic. Platonic relationships is capable of providing
certain things a romantic love cannot, which includes the freedom to be completely
authentic without fear of rejection. This concept originates in the ideas of
the ancient philosopher Plato, who believed that platonic love could bring
people closer to a divine ideal and also to god. The platonic relationship
focused on the idea that people can be close friends without sexual desire.
Companion soul mates, are referred to as deep, connections
of platonic nature with individuals who function as spiritual sidekicks,
providing unwavering support, understanding, and encouragement in order to help
navigate life’s journey. This soulmate is the one in the whole world who understands
and accepts you on the whole other level. A person knows the good, bad, and
ugly parts of his companion soulmate and choose to be together (not getting
married) because they know that if they don’t, they will never get another
friend like each other. These friendships are based on comfort, shared, and enduring
companionship without compulsion of romance, unlike romantic partners.
12 traits of a companion soulmate
The 12 traits of a companion soulmate are:
1.
There is profound acceptance of each other’s
opinions and individuality.
2.
Feeling of being “at home” and understood with
the person.
3.
They hearten you during difficult times and
celebrate your successes as their own, thus becoming your biggest cheerleader.
4.
As you know your companion soulmate will handle
your heart with care, therefore you feel secure enough to be authentic.
5.
The major conflict is prevented as there are
shared core values regarding honesty and life goals.
6.
There is open mindedness between both of them
and both work together in order to find solutions that satisfy both of their
requirements.
7.
There is effortless communication between both
of them which allows them to express their thoughts, and concerns honestly
without the fear of judgement.
8.
There is reliability on them for emotional
support.
9.
There is shared sense of humor as laughter act
as powerful bond thus helping you handle life’s challenges with frivolity.
10.
They inspire you to grow and become the best
version of yourself.
11.
The relationship is built on a foundation of
care as they treat you with genuine compassion.
12.
Being together is perceived as being comfortable
and is mutually fulfilling with minimal unnecessary stress.
5 benefits of having companion soulmate
The 5 benefits of having companion soulmate are:
1.
It fosters a sense of peace and belonging, thus
helps decrease symptoms of depression and anxiety. This soulmate offers a safe
heaven to share thoughts and feelings without judgement thus reducing
production of cortisol.
2.
Individuals in stable, loving, companion-based
relationships often live longer as they are linked to lower blood pressure,
better immune system function which is enhanced by affection and improved heart
health.
3.
Companion soulmate helps you in your self-worth
realization, especially on days you may feel down. They lead to higher
self-esteem and a sense of well-being and purpose by offering encouragement,
supporting your dreams and celebrating your successes.
4.
They lead to unconditional acceptance, which
creates a secure base thus allowing you to be your true self without the fear
of rejection.
5.
They force you to move beyond selfish tendencies
thus fostering a supportive and harmonious “team-oriented” life and enabling
you to work together to navigate challenges and create a meaningful future.
Example of companion soulmate
In homo pandorus, the role of oxytocin(Oxytocin including)
is played by thick bundle of nerves (known as Kuru or queue) at the back of the
head. This organ plays role in forming bond with animals, access memories of
their ancestors through Eywa or in forming bond with one another in order to
view each other’s memory. This fact is really fascinating as Na’vi’s are
forming direct bond with(Eywa) through queue. According to me, this is the best
example of companion soulmate.
Conclusion
Thus companion soulmate form the base of pursuing
unconditional love.
Tuesday, 23 December 2025
3 features that make Homo Pandorus Unique Among Human Species
3 features that make Homo Pandorus Unique Among Human Species
Introduction
Now a days we are hearing about
a human species that is speculated to be advanced than Homo sapiens. Avatar 1
and avatar 2 has been released based on this topic (humanoid species). This is
none other than Na’vi. Na’vi scientific name is Homo pandorus who live in the
lush moon of Pandora. These beings give birth to curiosity in us to discover
about more humanoid species in universe.
Why Homo pandorus are
interesting species?
Homo pandorus were(are) featured
in Avatar series, namely Avatar 1 and Avatar 2. Homo pandorus are highly
attached to nature ie they are very close to nature. They are hunter-gatherers
with having technology which is equivalent to that of Earth's Paleolithic
epoch, together with the society which is basically Neolithic.
Homo pandorus have their own
culture and religion just like we humans possess.
Homo pandorian culture
They can be termed as a higher
intelligence life that is in the same position as human beings in the
ecosystem, except that they have a godly mind under the nose of nature because
of the nature of the Pandora ecosystem in which all living beings are connected
to one another.
The Na'vi have spiritual
connection with all the wildlife on Pandora and with each other. They show
respect for their "goddess” named Eywa. A Tsahìk is known as the spiritual
leader who preaches Eywa and spiritually do nourishment of the clan.
Like Eywa goddess Shakti is also
worshipped in India.
They are divided into tribes,
which are termed as "clans". These are: The Omatikaya Clan (English:
Blue Flute Clan) and the Metkayina Clan. Members of the Metkayina clan have proposed
scientific name of "Homo pandorus orientalis" whereas members of the
Omatikaya clan have proposed scientific name of "Homo pandorus
pandorus".
Difference between Homo pandorus
pandorus and Homo pandorus orientalis
Homo pandorus orientalis have a
cyanic body than those who live in the jungles. Homo pandorus orientalis have
larger arms, legs, and tail known as a "strake" which help them to
live in aquatic environments, contrary to their sister subspecies.
Key characteristics of Na’vi
The key characteristics of Na’vi
are:
Na’vi possess a high-molecular
carbon fiber skeleton and the skeleton is more strong and flexible than that of
humans. This skeleton prevent Na’vi from harm due to fall. The skeleton is
light in weight. The Na’vi tribe is left handed.
Their body structure is similar
to real-word humans but their height measures about 3 meters tall.
They possess flat bifurcated
noses and pointed ears like cats that can move independently.
Humans have habits similar to
that of chimpanzees while Na’vi have habits similar to that of cats.
How do Homo pandorians connect?
In humans, there is hormone
called Oxytocin which is helpful in forming connections, forming relationships,
pair bonding, and general social interaction. In homo pandorus, this role of
oxytocin(Oxytocin including) is played by thick bundle of nerves (known as Kuru
or queue) at the back of the head. This organ plays role in forming bond with
animals, access memories of their ancestors through Eywa or in forming bond
with one another in order to view each other’s memory. This fact is really
fascinating as Na’vi’s are forming direct bond with(Eywa) through queue. In humans,
this bond is formed with gods through prayers. Humans need to communicate with
each other to perceive each other’s memories while Na’vis use their queues to
view each other’s memories, this fact make Homo pandorians more advanced
species than humans. The homo pandorian queue and oxytocin hormone in humans
are analogous(analogous organs example).
Eyes
The notable difference is that
the homo pandorian eyes are sensitive to wavelengths of light beyond into
near-infrared. With the help of their eyes, they can do nocturnal hunting. That
means they can fight in night, unlike humans who cannot. Their eye size is four
times human size.
Another notable difference is
that homo pandorus can have orange eyes while humans do not.
The advancement of these
creatures can be observed by the fact that their eyes can detect range and
speed of moving objects two to three times accurately compared to humans.
Skin
While human skin colour ranges
from black(Niyakim Gatwitch) to fair skin colour(due to quantity of melanin), Homo
pandorians have blue coloured skin, which is smooth and iridescent, which
appears within blue color spectrum, which ranges from greener cyans in oceanic
clans to deeper blues in jungle-fairing Na'vi such as the Omatikaya. While
humans have melanin responsible for colour of skin, Na’vis have cyanin pigment
which produces colors in the blue, purple and cyan spectrum.
The skin pigment interaction
with subsurface blood flow is helpful in creating the characteristic blue and
purplish shades of Na’vi skin color.
Like humans, homo pandorians have
also blood which is red.
Conclusion
With respect to eyes, skin and
queue, Homo pandorians have 3 features which make them unique and amazing.
References
1.
Heroes and Villains Wiki: Na’vi
2.
Fiction taxonomy: Na’vi
3.
Avatar wiki: Na’vi.
4.
Butterfly (Avatar series)
Sunday, 7 December 2025
Staying away from Builder burner personalities
Staying away from Builder burner personalities
Introduction
Once upon a time there was a boy
named X who was studying pharmacy in ABC college as pharmacy was his passion.
He cracked the competitive entrance exam of Pharmacy at undergraduate level and
got selected. During the first year he performed well in exam and was said that
he was brilliant student.
Turning point in X's life
When he entered second year,
there is another admission of Suhana in lateral entry category. X's friend
introduced Ms Z to X as his acquaintance. Initially , Z's and X's meeting was
limited to hi and hello, but when X shared
his notes with Z to help Z in her sessional exams, the conversation
between them deepened.
Start of X and Z's platonic love
X and Z helped each other. Due
to this, X and Z developed platonic love for each other. But the platonic love was in X's mind only,
not in Z's mind.
What's in Z's mind?
In Z's mind there was hatred for
boys(men). She was using X for her own benefits and ego massage.
Z used to bunk maximum of her
classes and make X take notes for her. Z promised X that a professor in that
college is known to her and she will also arrange notes for X when X needed the
notes. Z made arrangement for X so that X learned useful life quotes.
X also helped Z and Z also
helped X in 2nd year annual exam and thus both cleared 2nd year annual exam.
X and Z in 3rd year
X and Z both helped each other
in studies. According to only X, the bond between X and Z became stronger day
by day. One day X had to shift to other city as his father gets transferred to
that city. Due to this X had to take 15 days leave. Z promised X to take notes
for X and taught X useful life quotes. Then X, with no worries took 15 days
holiday and got busy in adjusting himself to new city. After 15 days, When X
came to college, Z made X understand notes and taught him useful life quotes.
It took 7 days for X to understand and cover notes. In annual exam X secured
70% and Z secured 60% and thus passed 3rd year exam.
X and Z's relationship in 4th
year
After X secured marks more than Z, Z started to have negative feelings about X. Her insecurity kicked in when X started flying. Z started resenting X. Z called X’s ambition selfish, and X’s focus neglect. X's standards became abuse to Z and his growth became threat to her.
Conclusion
Actually Z built the man(X) she
was secretly jealous of- then started destroying him out of fear X will outgrow
her. Z weaponized X’s success against X, and accused him of becoming the man
she prayed for. She does not wanted him to be better-she wanted him to be
dependent on her. Actually Z had characteristics of a builder-burner. Builder-burner should be avoided.
Always do friendship with a
woman who not only feeds your potential, but also protects your peace and
covers your back.
Thursday, 20 November 2025
Exploring the Spectrum: The Beauty of Queer Platonic Relationships
Exploring the Spectrum: The Beauty of Queer Platonic Relationships
Introduction
Do you know the other way to be close to someone other than
romance? Yes, there is a way and that is queer platonic relationship. It is an emotional
bond with someone which was deep in a way that you've shared with them your dreams,
fears, laughter—without expectating to date with them. It can be described as
finding a soulmate in platonic way which is full of affection and deeply
intimate.
It can be said (as said by Carly S) that queer platonic
relationships lie(categorization) between a BFF and a chosen family member.
What is Queer platonic relationship?
It can be defined as an emotional bond that surpass the
typical boundaries of friendship and focuses on mutual emotional support, shared
experiences, and make you feel comfortable in your own skin (you can fully be
yourself) with someone, without expectations or pressures of romance.
Queer platonic relationship gives representation of a
connection that is not romantic but is "queered” which means it exists in
the space which is between friendship and conventional romantic partnerships.
How queer platonic relationship differ from platonic
relationship?
A platonic relationship can be termed as a close friendship
of non-romantic nature, while a queerplatonic relationship is even deeper bond
involving more commitment which is explicitly non-romantic and often violates
traditional friendship norms.
What are three examples of queer platonic relationship?
The three examples of queer platonic relationship include:
1.Long-distance QPRs: Though you live in different cities,
states, or even countries, yet you stay deeply committed to and invested in
each other’s well-being.
2.Mutual life supporters: Though you live separately, you primarily
support each other emotionally, financially, and in the time of important life
moments.
3.Chosen family members: You commit to offer lifelong
support to each other.
4. Cohabiting best friends: You view each other as life
partners without the romance or sexual intimacy and together make big life
decisions.
What are signs of queer platonic relationship?
The signs of queer platonic relationship are:
1.
If your bond seems to be more than a typical
platonic friendship, you may be in a queerplatonic relationship.
2.
When a connection is of life-defining nature but
not sexual or romantic, then you are in queerplatonic relationship. For
example, you cannot imagine life without them but you never feel the desire for
romance.
3.
In Queer platonic relationship, you can adopt
pets together, recording each other as emergency contacts or investing in
cryptocurrency together. Thus it is a deeply committed relationship based on
mutual respect and care, without the involvement of sex.
4.
It becomes difficult explaining your bond with a
queerplatonic partner in a manner others understand.
Debunking myths
about QPR(Queer platonic relationship)
The myths about
QPR to be debunked are:
1.
QPRs are same as friendships is a myth but fact
is a QPR is a deep, committed partnership that involves a higher level of
intimacy and commitment than a standard friendship.
2.
QPRs are only for asexual or aromantic partner is
a myth but fact is that the defining factor is the lack of romantic or sexual
attraction, not the identities of the individuals who are involved.
3.
QPRs are a lesser or incomplete relationship is
a myth but the fact is QPRs are as valid and meaningful as romantic
relationships and they are a deliberate and intentional decision to build a
deep connection.
4.
QPRs are just a way to avoid “real”
relationships is a myth but the fact is QPRs are a chosen form of partnership
that gives importance to emotional intimacy, mutual support, and shared life
experiences over traditional romance.
Benefits of Queer platonic
relationship
Queer platonic relationships
(QPRs) offer benefits which are:
1.
QPRs provide the deep level of emotional
connection and a safe space for sharing feelings and experiences without being
judged thus fostering emotional resilience.
2.
QPRs gives space to feel seen and understood for
those who are suffering from loneliness
3.
QPRs are helpful in providing companionship for
long-term and stability.
5.
These relationships are helpful in fostering a
sense of belonging thus acting as a buffer against life's challenges and
helpful in promoting the mental wellness.
6.
QPR leads to improved self-esteem and increased
optimism for the future
7.
Individuals can maintain personal space and
connections without the added pressure of romantic expectations in queer
platonic relationships.
8.
QPRs provide a room where you can learn and
unlearn societal expectations about love and commitment.
9.
QPRs give exposure to individuals to the
different viewpoints thus providing open-mindedness and personal growth.
10.
QPRs are helpful in preventing individuals from
depression
Conclusion
This we see that queer platonic
relationships are beneficial to us and these relationships can be viewed as
strong support system. These relationships are synonymous with the word
freedom.
Sunday, 21 September 2025
Cooley a failed SSC aspirant
Cooley a failed SSC aspirant
Many of you have given SSC and other competitive exams for
govt job. But some of you have/had failed in your last attempt to get govt job
due to many other reasons like scam, corruption, technical glitches, etc. Do
not worry as it is said that difficult roads lead to beautiful places. May be
you discover your job/start up that satisfies your or becomes your ikigai. I
will narrate to you an inspiring story of Cooley singh, an SSC aspirant, who,
despite being failed in last attempt to crack SSC, still
lived a happy and satisfied life.
Story of Cooley singh as SSC aspirant
After getting failed to crack DSSSB pharmacist exam, Cooley
singh becomes disappointed and in a fit decides to do preparation for SSC for
Narcotics inspector. The vacancy for Narcotics inspector was nearly 90 and the
age limit for Narcotics inspector was 18-28 years(Cooley singh being 27 years
of age at the time when he was newly filling SSC CGL form in 2017). He filled
the form and after few days joined coaching institute(Excellent SSC academy).
He liked their coaching and studied Maths and English with determination in
2017. The exam date was declared by SSC
CGL for tier-1 on 6 September 2017. Cooley singh tried his best to score
sufficient marks in SSC CGL 2017 tier-1 exam but couldn't made upto the mark. On
this Cooley singh became Sad. On seeing Cooley Singh sad, his mother took him
to PVB cinema to watch Baadshaho. After seeing Baadshaho, Cooley singh became
happy. He also gave Pharmacist exam of DSSSB in 2017 and tried to get
pharmacist post but there he couldn't qualify that exam and was 2 marks away
for getting qualified.
Then came 2018, Cooley Singh did thorough preparation for
SSC tier-1 and studied all subjects of tier-1 in such a way that while giving
tier-1 exam he can qualify tier-1 exam easily. SSC CGL tier-1 application was
released in May 2018. He filled the form and again started preparing for SSC
exam with great determination. In July, while he was preparing for SSC exam,
the news came out the scam occurred in 2017 tier-1 exam that was conducted by
sify. Sify was declared a villian in eyes of SSC aspirants. The news also came
out that SSC CGL tier-1 exam 2017 will be cancelled. Cooley Singh thought that
this will be greatest opportunity for him to clear SSC CGL exam and get himself
post of Narcotics inspector. He took advantage of the situation and started
preparing for SSC tier-1 exam thoroughly. But luck did not favour him. After
sometime it was declared that SSC tier-1 exam 2018 will be held on 21.6.2019.
This was Cooley Singh's last attempt. The disadvantage he faced was the uncertainty
of CGL tier-1 2018 exam which had worst effect on his preparation. This
disadvantage so much affected him that he couldn't crack the CGL tier-1 2018
exam. He was so much sad that he could not eat dinner that day.
Turning point in Cooley Singh's life
With support of his parents, he overcame the sadness of not
qualifying SSC CGL 2018 exam. Then after sometime he thought of doing digital
marketing. Actually before giving tier-1 exam, while doing net surfing, he came
across the course of Digital marketing and learned about its benefits. But he
thought that idea of doing digital marketing will be a great back up plan. On
1st October 2019, ie after giving SSC CGL tier-1 exam, he joined ABC technology
institute and started learning about digital marketing. There he learnt about
SEO which was taught to him in easy manner. There he also learnt SMO,
SMM(Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter ads) and SEM(Google ads) in interesting manner.
Digital Marketing
Digital Marketing industry in India is a booming career
today. In a country with a rapid growth economy, it is expected to have a very
high significant growth in Digital marketing career. Internet access is a
main-stream which has intensified the use of mobile phones, computers, and
laptops. This intensity leading to a high change in the growth of digital
channels both in strength and volume.
Be it social media, surfing for information on Google or
making purchases, India has transformed this medium into a full-fledged market.
India also has the World’s largest Facebook population. The
high-speed digitization, online portals, social media channels, etc. lead to a
growth of digital marketing in a trend par imagination.
Digital marketing is very much about influencing the
audience online with mediums of content to increase a brand’s impact over the
audience.
The amount of time spent by the people on the internet
empowers digital marketers to create impactful strategies to influence consumer
behavior. The right strategy converts the audience into sales.
As per 2019 stats, the digital marketing industry in India
is worth $68 billion!
How Cooley Singh overcame failure?
Failure became one of the most powerful teacher in Cooley
Singh’s life. Failure told Cooley Singh that he found a way that didn’t work
and inspired Cooley Singh to try differently. Failure helped him to learn anf
grow further. Through digital marketing he started small and build confidence
with quick wins. Failure taught him to be positive and focus on efforts in
right direction.
Achievements of Cooley singh while he is pursuing digital
marketing
Cooley Singh not only learnt how to make his own website but
made his own website. He wrote blogposts that ranked high on google search
engine with the help of SEO he learnt. He also gained followers on his
Instagram profile that reached near 3,000. His blogposts are world wide
appreciated. He also created his impressive linkedin profile that made him
available for digital marketing and pharmacy related jobs. He also created his
impressive facebook profile. Cooley Singh also joined digital marketing course
from Pankaj Kanagraj and learnt to write ebooks and wrote three ebooks.
Thursday, 14 August 2025
The Role of Platonic Love in Mental Health and Well-Being
The Role of Platonic Love in Mental Health and Well-Being
Introduction
“The person should be my best friend first and then my life
partner”. These are the words from the motivational speaker Tanya who was
looking for a life partner in the website XYZM. She knows that foundation for
close relationships(life partner) is becoming best friend first. Close
friendships(best friends) can bolster health, improve life satisfaction and
even boost longevity just like platonic love. In 2016 film Ae dil hai mushkil,
Alizeh loved Ayan only as a friend. But
what if Ayan choosed to platonically love Alizeh, then their relationship
problem would have been solved.
Lord Krishna never married Radha as he believed; love and
marriage are two different things. Krishna believed that marriage is an
agreement or arrangement whereas love is a selfless emotion where you pledge to
love someone with purified nature.
Platonic relationships is capable of providing certain
things a romantic love cannot, which includes the freedom to be completely
authentic without fear of rejection.
By reading this blogpost, you will come to know about
beneficial role of platonic love in mental health and well being.
What is platonic love?
A platonic(love)
relationship can be defined as the relationship in which two people share a
close bond but do not have any sexual activity. They may even experience love
for each other, referred to as platonic love. Platonic love focuses on emotional
or spiritual connection. This concept originates in the ideas of the ancient
philosopher Plato, who believed that platonic love could bring people closer to
a divine ideal and also to god.
The platonic relationship focused on the idea that people
can be close friends without sexual desire. Though the desire to touch, to
kiss, to hug is there, but still no physical intimacy exist between the human
male and the human female. Platonic love is a deep friendship which embraces affection,
support, and shared interests.
The main idea of these(platonic) relationships resides in
the mutual concern in each other’s well-being and a wish to see the other
person prosper without the complications and expectations that often go along
with romantic love.
In a nutshell, platonic love is having emotional connection (at
a heart level) with platonic friend.
How platonic love is beneficial for mental well being?
Platonic love is beneficial in following ways:
1.
Platonic relationships are helpful in releasing
oxytocin, which lowers stress response and promotes feelings of calm and
well-being.
2.
Platonic bonds help fight loneliness and
isolation by providing a sense of belonging and connection.
3.
In, platonic relationships, positive feedback,
encouragement, and shared achievements lead to a significant improvement in
self-esteem and confidence.
4.
Platonic relationships help you in becoming more
resilient by providing support to you in the face of life's challenges like troubles
in your romantic relationships, problems in your family, work struggles, or
health challenges.
5.
Individuals who have strong platonic relationships
are protected from depression and anxiety.
6.
Platonic relationship give individuals exposure
to different perspectives, experiences and ideas which can deepen their
understanding of world and themselves.
7.
Friendships in adolescence and adulthood are
helpful in development of essential relationship skills like trust,
communication and emotional support which are necessary.
8.
The platonic relationships create a sense of
purpose and meaning in life by providing emotional support and shared
experiences, thus contributing to overall well-being.
9.
Platonic Friends help each other heal and grow
by tailoring and encouraging honesty, compassion, boundaries, calm conflict
resolution, and other important elements of healthy interpersonal (platonic)
relationships. This type of love can be pivotal when you’re in need to approach
for support.
Conclusion
Thus, we can say that platonic relationships are beneficial
for us with respect to mental as well as emotional well being.



