Top 12 Facts About Princess Syndrome you should know
Introduction
In childhood you had read about princesses like Snow white,
Cindrella and Princess Diana. These princesses had become favourite because of
their beautiful and pretty looking dresses and their encounter with their
prince charming who come to their rescue. These princesses had been centre of
attraction throughout whole story and loved by all the characters in the story.
In Coolie No.1, the lavish lifestyle led by Sarah (Karishma Kapoor) and special
treatment given to her has tempted many young girls to dream of this
lifestyle.
But an author from US has written a book stated that that
these fantasy fairytales and similar stories like these send a dangerous
message to their readers (audiences especially children) leading to having
adverse effect on children’s self-esteem.
These fairytales drive the little girls away from reality of
world. This princess syndrome sabotages relationships and exerts a negative
impact on women when it comes to looking for love. They do not feel like their
perfectly healthy relationship with men feel enough like a fairytale. They
might possess this idea of what ideal romance and the perfect person (prince
charming) should be, only to be in opposition by loving somebody who doesn't fulfil
these criteria — but they however possess strong emotions for them. These women
might undergo the risk of choosing the completely wrong person.
This article will make you aware about the facts about
princess syndrome so that you become cautioned about the ill effects of
princess syndrome.
12 facts related to princess syndrome
1.
Girl (woman) fully believes that all good things
are due to her alone.
2.
Woman who suffers from this syndrome think that
everyone should stop whatever they are doing and focus on her now.
3.
Women with this syndrome like to talk about
herself all the time. They rarely try to know or understand others. They have
thinking that their minor problems have more importance than the great problems
of others. This is called ultimate self-centredness.
4.
It becomes difficult to satisfy such women as
they have unrealistically high expectations. They also possess long list of
needs. Due to this it becomes a Herculean task to please her.
5.
They have difficulty taking criticism. They
consider criticism as a personal attack on them. As they are really sensitive,
at all costs they usually avoid admitting that they are wrong. It becomes
difficult to win argument with them. According to their mood they will pounce
at what you say. Thus it becomes compulsory to walk on eggshells beside them.
6.
Princess syndrome sufferers prefer to form
eggshell relationships so that they can cheat you and take advantage of you.
7.
Princess syndrome (PS) sufferers prefer not to
break a sweat and want to be treated like VVIPS all the time. As these are
spoilt, they do not do a lot of things themselves and are habitual to every
peasant surrounding them available for their beck and call.
8.
When PS sufferers do not get what she wants or
do not get attention or VVIP treatment, she will complain about this in an
annoying, crying voice until someone pacifies her. If not, then they will make
black faces.
9.
For every PS sufferer, every men is a tool of
entertainment as PS sufferers evaluate men based on how they make her laugh and
take her out.
10.
Girls with PS, in addition to having idealistic
views about their Prince Charming which are not real; they also possess
opinions which are sexist and double standard in case of relationships. Though
everyone prefers to be overindulged with gifts, but princesses expect men to bestow
freely them with the affection which is materialistic in nature.
11.
PS sufferers have a complaint that they are
‘forever alone’ while they brush off every guy that approaches her for
relationship as they have a notion that people whom they subject to rejection
are beneath them. These girls possess checklists that are strict that make guys
run out of the game second they don’t have any defining traits listed which can
be as necessary as to be taller than 1.82cm
12.
PS sufferers give reply to your messages with
short, one-sentence responses depicting their indifference or uninvestment.
Conclusion
Hope that you became aware about the facts related to
princess syndrome. If princess syndrome is not dealt in time, this will lead to
dire consequences just like Sunandha Kumariratana faced who got drowned in the
Chao Phraya River in attempt to escape a royal barge which had caught fire.
What adds to the tragic trait of the story is that the
ancient laws of Siam prohibited anyone, including the queen's own servants, to
touch the royal person. These laws were made in order to make Sunandha feel
special about her. While the queen struggled in order to save her life, her
attendants had no choice but to watch helplessly from the shore as she was
drowning.
