What we can learn from platonic relationship between Mohini and Sudama?
Introduction
We have heard that a woman and a man cannot be friends. But
this notion is wrong. Women and men can be best friends and be in platonic relationship. They can be each
others well wishers too. They can work for each others well being and bring out
each others best version. Mohini and Sudama are the best example of friendship
between a man and a woman. They proved that they wish for each others good
life.
How friendship between Sudama and Mohini started?
One day Sudama was browsing Jeevansathi.com to find a
suitable match for himself. Then he found that Mohini had sent interest to him.
She appealed to Sudama and then conversation started between two of them.
Mohini said to Sudama that she owns the hotel in Bangkok. Sudama informed her
that he is working as a dispensing pharmacist in SDMC. Mohini first started
conversation by sending a quote to Sudama which is life changing.
That life changing quote is that if you are determined for
the success you will achieve it one day. Sudama, while conversating with
Mohini, said that he deals with drug information and digital marketing. Sudama
knows the tactics of digital marketing and drug information. He sent the reel
on drug information to Mohini that was based on finding medicinal plants with
the help of smart phone while walking in park. Mohini at this advised Sudama that
one can learn from his/her previous mistakes. Then Sudama shared her a video
which states that how one can be happy. Sudama was having a bad time in
establishing himself as a digital marketer as he was earning minimum amount of
money from his blog.
He was also unhappy with his job and wanted to quit his job
as his salary is not meeting his dreams. Sudama was having dog days. He was
also struggling to discover the passive income source other than his own blog
so that he will be able to earn a lot of money to be able to quit his job. He
will be able to live life on his own terms and set up drug information centre
as well as digital marketing agency.
How Mohini helped Sudama overcome his fear of struggles and
made him survive his bad days?
While Sudama was conversating with Mohini, Mohini messaged
him quotes that made Sudama a very hardworking and fearless man. Mohini
transformed Sudama into a wise man. She said to Sudama that courage is needed
to write history, not a pen. She also quoted to Sudama that those do something
instead of avoiding something move forward in the world. She advised Sudama to
walk with the times, otherwise he will be left behind. She build confidence in
Sudama by advising him to have faith in himself, then even fear gets scared of him.
With the help of her advise, Sudama faced his daily life challenges in an easy
way. Thus Mohini helped Sudama in gaining a positive mindset for himself and
have a new outlook towards life. Sudama then advised her by sharing an
Instagram reel on how to love herself. He also advised her that she is not
alone and he will help her. Actually she believed in him when no one else
believed in him. She became his source of inspiration.
What Mohini gave advise to Sudama on relationships?
Sudama asked Mohini whether she talked to her parents about
him. At this Mohini said that firstly both of them would know each other better
then they would think
About marriage as marriage happens only once in life. Then
Sudama asked Mohini that what would she expect from her husband. Mohini
answered that she is looking for her partner who is responsible, has a common
topic, has the same values, and values commitment. Mohini asked Sudama how he
will define a successful relationship. She also asked Sudama about his opinion
on good relationship.
Sudama said that in a successful relationship both husband
and wife grows and develops and get successful together. At this Mohini said
that a good relationship is when someone accepts your past, be supportive of
your present and be supportful for your future. There should be trust and
respect for each others feelings and passions. They should help each other grow
and support in whatever way possible. They should give each other space and
consider each other as equals. There should be love and care for one another.
Mohini asked Sudama that how his emotional experience been
and how he would see his future love path. At this Sudama said that the
emotional experience was great with her and future love path will be supporting
each other emotionally. At this Mohini proved Sudama right and said that Love
is that thing that is felt from the heart, there is no need to express love in
front of everyone, we should take care of every little happiness of our partner
and we should understand before he speaks. At this Sudama said that love should
be like RadhaKrishna.
Mohini asked Sudama what is his opinion on marriage. At this
Sudama said that marriage is based on love. Marriage occurs when there is a
promise to keep partner’s futureself happy and satisfied. At this Mohini said
that Marriage is a bond between two people that no one else understands. A
partnership that gets each other through life when you need each other the most
and share the most amazing experiences with. According to Mohini, marriage means
choosing your team-mate, commiting to them and working together for the rest of
your life. Mohini advised Sudama that if he keeps thinking good, attitude will
automatically become good. She also advised to Sudama that it is not necessary
that everyone should believe him, what he believes in is important. She also
advised to Sudama that it does not matter what relationship but the
relationship is the matter. When Sudama checked Mohini’s profile, it was
written that the person should be Mohini’s best friend first and then her life
partner who should be always be there in her ups and downs.
Conclusion
It was Mohini’s feelings for Sudama as a best friend first that Mohini so much helped Sudama in his bad days. Sudama made a place in Mohini’s heart. Mohini made Sudama mature enough that Sudama is able to face difficulties of life with ease. Sudama now understood that whether he gets married to Mohini or not, he will be her best friend. The true friendship between a boy and a girl is so amazing, the boy care for her like a Father. The girl care for her like a Mother. Mohini cared for Sudama like a mother should care for her child by sending him life changing quotes. There existed platonic relationship between Mohini and Sudama.
A platonic relationship can be defined as the relationship in which two people share a close bond but do not have any sexual activity. They may even experience love for each other, referred to as platonic love. This concept originates in the ideas of the ancient philosopher Plato, who believed that platonic love could bring people closer to a divine ideal and also to god.
The platonic relationship focused on the idea that people can be close friends without sexual desire.
People who are in platonic relationship have deep a connection, but they also take into consideration each other's personal space and respect them. They don't indulge in forcing the other person to do things they don't want to do or be something that they are not.
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